Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Kansas Kind

I want to remember how kind people are in Kansas and if I were to describe HOW or WHY they are kind, here are some examples:

1) Everyone says "hello" or acknowledges you in some way. They look you straight in the eyes when they greet you and they smile. There is not a barrier to this kindness that would be construed as shy or snobbish. They seem very genuine.
2) When we walked into a restaurant, the staff would greet us and then bend down to greet our children. They would ask how old they were, how they were doing and were very complimentary towards Lucy. This didn't just happen once or at a certain location, it happened every time.
3) Bill is selling door to door here. He said the people are so nice that they will talk to you for 30 minutes before they will tell you they have no interest in what you are selling. There is good and bad to this as Bill felt it was a waste of time, but they were still kind.
4) The teachers at the school (all of the teachers, not just my kid's teachers) would greet you as you walked down the halls.
5) Max got a terrible splinter in his foot so I asked the Manager of the hotel we stayed out where we could find a medical. She offered to take it out for him. I lacked the first aid supplies needed, but she pulled out a kit and proceeded to do "surgery". He kicked and screamed for over an hour in her office. She was in a business suit on the floor with a needle working hard to help him. It took 3 people and over 2 hours to get it, we finally did. Because of her kindness we were able to save money on a medical bill. She was very gracious about helping us. I was so grateful.
6) I was shocked when I realized the ringing phone was in our "hotel" room. It was the Bishop of the ward here. He has a fabulous Australian accent. He just wanted to welcome us and see if there was anything the ward could do for our family. Nice!
7) When I called before we left for Kansas to find out what ward we attend there, the Bishop's wife was darling. She offered a lot of information and included her 2 daughters as babysitters. I sure wish I would have taken her up on that offer!

These are just a small few examples, but the hospitality and kindness of the people in Kansas is not lost on my family.

TO my kids,

LIFE LESSON: Be kind.

Love, Mom

1 comment:

Heather said...

You are very lucky to live in such an overall kind place. I miss eye contact and a polite smile in the grocery store.